How to Not Die Alone Book Summary

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The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

Book by Logan Ury

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How to Not Die Alone is a practical guide that uses behavioral science and real-life examples to help you find and maintain a fulfilling long-term relationship by identifying self-sabotaging dating patterns, practicing intentional love, and making deliberate choices.

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The Work-It-Out Mindset

β€œIn comparison, those with the work-it-out mindset believe that relationships take effort, that love is an action you take, not something that happens to you. People with the work-it-out mindset tend to fare better in relationships because when they stumble, they put in the work needed to get the relationship back on track, rather than giving up."

Section: 1, Chapter: 2

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The Monet Effect

β€œI call this error in judgment the Monet Effect. When we have only a rough perception of someone, our brain, hoping for a great outcome, fills in all the gaps optimistically. People seem way more desirable than they actually are. It’s only later, when they transform into real people standing in front of us, that we see the flaws.”

Section: 2, Chapter: 8

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